Empowering women
to create wardrobes
they love wearing.
Yay! I'm glad you're here.
And it breaks my heart when a woman feels overwhelmed and frustrated by her clothing...
clothing that could be making her feel unstoppable!
It makes me sad because she never gets to...
Experience the FREEDOM of having a well-curated collection of clothing that makes getting dressed easy and fun!
Feel the CONFIDENCE that comes from knowing she has the pieces she needs to show up beautifully in any situation.
Delight in the JOY of wearing clothes that feel authentic and support her lifestyle.
And worst of all, she never realizes how having her wardrobe align with her best self creates a RIPPLE EFFECT that elevates every area of her life!
Why am I so passionate about helping you
take the mystery out of effortless style?
Because I was once in your shoes (pun intended;-)
I know what it's like to:
Be stuck in a cycle of buying and returning because you can't find the perfect pieces
Always shop SALE because you don't honor your worth or trust your choices
Feel confused about how to look modern and relevant as you age
Never actually wear your favorite pieces because you're saving them for later
Be tired of playing small and feeling invisible
Believe that if you could only elevate your look, you'd feel so much better about yourself and your whole world would begin to shift
And today, after 25 years in closets and fitting rooms, and learning hundreds of personal style lessons the hard way...
I'm here to show you how much easier and more fun getting dressed can be when you understand what's been tripping you up and have the solutions at your fingertips.
My superpower is helping you understand how to create fabulous outfits so that you can
start trusting yourself when it comes to getting dressed.
A few things you should know about me…
I understand your wardrobe struggles.
I’ve spent two and half decades in fitting rooms and closets with women of all shapes, sizes, ages, colors, and backgrounds. I’ve experienced first-hand that we share similar insecurities and subject ourselves to the same negative self-talk on repeat.
And I've learned that there is ALWAYS at least one style, shape, silhouette, fabric, and color that makes a woman pause, take notice of her magic and SMILE at what she sees in the mirror! When you identify the right formula, getting dressed becomes a pleasure instead of a chore.
I can save you money.
My philosophy on clothing tends to be a bit different than that of other personal stylists.
I rarely suggest more shopping because I truly believe that most women already have the components of an exceptional wardrobe hanging in their closet. My role is to help you to learn how to make the most of what you own… carefully adding only pieces that are truly needed to complete your optimal, wearable wardrobe.
I'll teach you simple, essential shopping skills so that you can shop with confidence and stop wasting money on clothes that don't fit your needs or your lifestyle.
I go deep.
I feel it's important to go beneath the clothes. I don’t want to help you rearrange your closet and call it a day. True transformation happens when you start to really understand what's been holding you back.
While our ‘style’ shows up on the outside, I believe our clothing is a direct reflection of what’s happening on the inside. How we feel when we get dressed has so much to do with the thoughts we think and the story we tell ourselves.
We all have limiting beliefs when it comes to getting dressed. I'll help you gain clarity about what’s preventing you from having the style you want. Together, we’ll uncover what's keeping you stuck so that you can change the way you see yourself and your clothing. When we’re finished, you'll feel like a new girl.
My heart is in coaching women who want to look put-together and are tired of trying to figure it out themselves.
So what's my actual experience?
I have 26+ years of experience in women’s retail apparel. My retail résumé includes Neiman Marcus, Ann Taylor, Bloomingdales, and Anthropologie.
I have a BA in Fashion Merchandising and Advertising.
I founded The Together Act in 2011 because I wanted to create a business where I could help women build wardrobes they adore wearing. The Together Act grew to include a blog, a YouTube channel, style workshops and public speaking engagements.
April 2020, The Together Act became Kristen Cain Style.
On a Personal Note…
I identify as she/her.
I’m a lefty.
I’m a Sagittarius.
I have lots of perfectionist tendencies.
I’m a 6 on the Enneagram.
I’m an ESFJ on Myers-Briggs.
I’m trained as a doula and think childbirth is the coolest thing ever!
I make my bed every single morning.
I love palm trees and sunshine…
Paris and stripes, pizza and dark chocolate.
I live in awesome Salt Lake City, Utah with my husband Matthew and a rotating combination of our three adult kids.
I’m originally from the east coast so I walk and talk fast, and love the perfection that is a Wawa hoagie.
Thinking you'd like to work together?
Need a quick win? Check your BASICS!
Grab my free Style BASICS Checklist below. Effortless outfits start with great foundation pieces. You’ll learn 7 Essential Building Blocks for Incredible Style and discover what truly matters when it comes to curating a wardrobe that works.
No eye rolls, I promise BASICS aren’t boring… they are the understated, necessary, ‘good bones’ of a fantastic wardrobe.